Wednesday, December 5, 2007

New Technique

When Joel & I can't work something out by words, or when talking seems to make things more confusing and worse - we just be quiet and hug!

In the past I would never do this because I always put such an emphasis on working things out verbally. I think that talking things out is important and essential to working certain issues out. However, sometimes you need to let things go, let them be, or realize that talking isn't going to bring you closer, so you just physically get closer.

Sometimes by becoming physically close, we are better able to stay close with our words after that.

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